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Melissa Todd

Writer and commentator on sex work and kink.

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Melissa Todd
Melissa Todd

Writer and commentator on sex work and kink.

School of Discipline

Have you ever dreamed of learning the noble art of discipline? Discovering how to quell an insubordinate inferior with a single look, a well-placed cane stroke, a carefully measured sneer?

Melissa offers regular tutorials to small, carefully selected groups, explaining everything she’s learned over her twenty years as a professional disciplinarian. We discuss role-play, spanking positions, implements, outfits, modelling, filming, Onlyfans; how to advertise, market yourself, take payments: the importance of developing your own identity, of choosing your domme name. The sessions are also attended by devoted spankees on whom you can practise your craft, subjecting them to hand, paddle, flogger, tawse, sjambok and cane.

A three hour session costs £200, at the end of which you will be able to begin your new career. Melissa will also offer additional support after the session with the wording of your initial advertisement, your first few emails, and promoting you on social media.

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A writer, performer and commentator on sex work and kink, with regular columns in Metro and Love it! magazine. She has worked in the sex industry for thirty years, and penned three books: My Body is My Business, her first and best loved work, gives a fictionalised account of her experiences in striptease, porn and domination. She has one son and lives in Kent with a remarkably stupid cat.

Essential Blogs

  • The Nordic Model
  • Pornography is not harmful
  • You can’t consent to being hurt
  • The Nordic Model
  • Pornography is not harmful
  • You can’t consent to being hurt

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