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Melissa Todd

Writer and commentator on sex work and kink.

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Gag writer on tour: Review

Melissa, May 1, 2026May 9, 2026

My Night with a Domme17 April , The Grapes, Bath  I have a theory that the vast majority of us are at least curious about kink. I am at least,which is why I find myself in what looks like a large sitting room above The Grapes pubin Bath on a Friday evening.Every…

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The Nordic Model

Melissa, November 21, 2025November 21, 2025

A Norwegian chap wrote to me this week, requesting details of my sessions and help with his transport arrangements, which I gave with typical ill grace. (“It’s all on my website. You know, the website where you found my email address. And do I look like a search engine to…

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Disabled clients

Melissa, January 19, 2025January 25, 2025

Richard is 76, fascinated by politics, adores the music of the Temperance Seven and the novels of Robert Louis Stephenson. Until recently he was a keen archer and swam competitively. He has an English degree and is keen on photography, developing his pictures himself. He also has cerebral palsy. Until…

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Seeking out suffering

Melissa, January 19, 2025January 24, 2025

It may perhaps seem odd that people would choose to pay me to endure untold humiliation and suffering, these being experiences humans are usually thought to avoid. And yet in truth humans seek out suffering constantly, and pay for it too. Consider the fools who get flung about on rollercoasters:…

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You can’t consent to being hurt

Melissa, January 19, 2025January 24, 2025

I spent a day as headmistress of an adult school this week. There were geography and science tests, art class and recorder practise, school dinners, milk at break, uniform inspections, and of course, heaps of caning. At lunch we all emerged from our roles somewhat and chatted about other spanko…

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  • The Nordic Model
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