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Melissa Todd
Melissa Todd

Writer and commentator on sex work and kink.

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Melissa Todd
Melissa Todd

Writer and commentator on sex work and kink.

School of Discipline

Have you ever dreamed of learning the noble art of discipline? Discovering how to quell an insubordinate inferior with a single look, a well-placed cane stroke, a carefully measured sneer?

Melissa offers regular tutorials to small, carefully selected groups, explaining everything she’s learned over her twenty years as a professional disciplinarian. We discuss role-play, spanking positions, implements, outfits, modelling, filming, Onlyfans; how to advertise, market yourself, take payments: the importance of developing your own identity, of choosing your domme name. The sessions are also attended by devoted spankees on whom you can practise your craft, subjecting them to hand, paddle, flogger, tawse, sjambok and cane.

A three hour session costs £200, at the end of which you will be able to begin your new career. Melissa will also offer additional support after the session with the wording of your initial advertisement, your first few emails, and promoting you on social media.

Nominated for Sex-Positive Influencer of 2026
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Essential Blogs

  • Gag writer on tour: Review
  • Pornography is not harmful
  • The Nordic Model
  • Disabled clients
  • Seeking out suffering

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