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Melissa Todd

Writer and commentator on sex work and kink.

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Melissa Todd
Melissa Todd

Writer and commentator on sex work and kink.

Talks

Melissa gives regular talks at Rotary clubs, WIs and literary festivals, discussing writing, sex, relationships and BDSM. 

These can be tailored for all male, all female, or mixed groups, even for Church discussion groups or rugby clubs: they can be focussed around bereavement, philosophy,  politics, writing and getting published, or an endless succession of mucky raucous anecdotes. 

“Had the best evening with Melissa Todd at Sheppey rotary, particularly the Q&A…she happily tackled every subject, from the political to the obscene. It was the highlight of our social calendar. We laughed nonstop. In between gasps!”

Contact Melissa to discuss her appearing at your event! 

Melissa Todd


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A writer, performer and commentator on sex work and kink, with regular columns in Metro and Love it! magazine. She has worked in the sex industry for thirty years, and penned three books: My Body is My Business, her first and best loved work, gives a fictionalised account of her experiences in striptease, porn and domination. She has one son and lives in Kent with a remarkably stupid cat.

Essential Blogs

  • The Nordic Model
  • Pornography is not harmful
  • You can’t consent to being hurt
  • The Nordic Model
  • Pornography is not harmful
  • You can’t consent to being hurt

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